I think i might like my best friend and he might like me back?
I have a problem. My girl best friend liked this guy. He was kinda my friend. She ended up telling him that she liked him. My guy friend and i became really close after talking about all of this, because my guy friend had liked this other girl. So long story short, he is now one of my best friends, and so is the girl. The boy and the girl are now just friends.
Me and they guy talk 24/7. We joke all the time. We give each other advice. And he will wait outside my class room to talk to me. Lately, i think i’ve started to get feelings for him. And i think he might be getting the same for me. Heres the story: I always go to bed early. He always stays up late. He always makes fun of me for it. So one night, he sent me 60 text messages while i was alseep. Just with song lyrics. He knows how much i love music. So i woke up, and texted him all day, like normal. Then last night he did it again, to a song that we have a joke about. Then he texted me (stilll while i was asleep) "hey so i was thinking, you know how you said how you have been taking a break from liking _(guy i like)__, well i think you and him should just be friends. and now after i’ve seen the real side of __(girl he liked)__ i think i just wanna be friends with her too." And another text saying "i hope you like all of these songs, because you’re getting them every night!" so i replyed "Yeah, i was really planning on liking him again. And i do like the songs, they give me something to look forward to each morning" and he said "yay! i’m glad you like them(:"
but i dont wanna like him, actually, i do. its just i’m going to feel like i’m stealing him from my best friend. She has even pointed out that she thinks he likes me. But idk. I havent told anyone, because i dont wanna seem like a crappy friend. What should i do? Do you think he likes me too?
Yes he likes you. With all the things he’s doing and saying he definitely does. Tell your friend that you like him and make sure it’s ok with her. If it is tell him you like him. If it isn’t tell her she should support you even if she stills likes him. Good friends always support each other no matter what. If she can’t deal then she probably wasn’t that good of a friend. Just tell him and good luck!